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Rhymes With Camera's avatar

I was a writer-mother who made a decent living at it (retired as a writer employee now but I still write! + my kids are grown but I’m still their mom!), so screw those wannabes who took the “Safe” route.

There’s nothing safe or practical about living an inauthentic life because society said so.

I know many effed up humans who really needed to use their gift of life to make things and express themselves but they sold that part of their soul to the capitalist, patriarchal devil.

Wompwomp now they’re in therapy lamenting the lack of meaning in their lives.

These are the same people who tend to undervalue the arts/creativity or naively think “anybody can do that” or “writing is not real labor.”

I’m sad for these lost souls now. If they could only know what riches come from being a writer/artist without apology.

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Nikki Finlay's avatar

I spent the time I wasn’t in school (I was a professional student at Georgia Tech and Georgia State for most of 20 year!) being a mother. It is work and it is among the best work you will so.

When I told my parents I wanted to be a teacher, they told me I couldn’t. My dad wanted me to be an engineer, my mom wanted me to be an accountant. I became an economist and taught anyway.

I never told them I wanted to be a writer, though. But now my dad’s apparently proud that I am. I don’t make any money, but now I don’t need to.

As for Mrs. Cole, BOO!

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